"Opposites attract" well this a well proven fact of physics.It is said science is a way of life and this maxim gains its importance when we ourselves become catalyst for the reaction of opposite attraction.But there's another countersatement to back it"opposites attract but likes endure"...
So finally after enough beatin around the bush let me come to the topic.
Crushes are merely teenage blues or may be younger than that(keeping in mind the latest trends) .To be more rational, lets not consider age as the barrier.
A crush is a "strong liking for an individual".I guess every individual sometime in his/her own life experiences this feeling.For its purely a natural process....you were never taught anything about it,You never plan it,You neither wanted it but it just happens.
For some it may be for a moment like a bubble which bursts out,For some it may be a long phase which withers & dies.
Crushes are merely infatuations, nurtered by laws of attraction.It transcends logic & reason.
One can never comprehend why suddenly you are attracted to someone.It may begin because of a beautiful face,a sweet voice, a handsome body,a charming personality,a sparkling smile, a kind jesture or nothing at all.
It may be standing at the window as he reluctantly drives away, it maybe waiting for her call,
it may mean lazy dreams of future with him/her ,it may be the restlessness to meet,it may be the urge to dress up to impress,it may be blushing away to glory when he complements,it may be the way she looked at you through the corner of her eye,it may be an act of bravery..................it may be anything but love.
And this is perhaps the reason why crushes crash & do not last.
For true love is an understanding which compels u to be together with someone to make up for the mutual deficiencies (as we all are somewhere imperfect....).it is about trust,its about knowing each other for what they are and not expecting to change like two halves of whole ,complementing each other.Its a process which can be understood only by experiencing it..............(some experience it b4 marraige n sum aftr)
Thursday, June 5, 2008
Confessions of a Twenty Someone
Twenty that milestone in your life when you are overwhlemed by the fact "yes ,i am an adult " in the real sense.Just shreded the experimental teenage years and now ready to take the plunge.You feel strong, invincible,ready to be commited in relationship,ready to be financially independent,ready to be your own. But the question here to be answered is that "Is it not far too ambitious attempt by the "twenty someone" to dream dreams of bein rich,independent & happy?"
Do we really know what we want?Do we really know who we are? The answer is no.We grope in the dark wanting to reach out to something, someone,somewhere sometimes not even knowing why let alone how.Today life is beset with multivarious challenges, frustation & problems both at personal & professional fronts.Drugs,alcohol,infidelity appear as possible escape routes which would definitely lead us nowhere.
If we really want to be prepared , then we should just have a peek-a-boo through our innerselves .Accept things and if they are not acceptable have the optimism & the determination to change them.
Discover the importance of yourself as well as others. Feel the power of love & expand your life through meaningful relationships.
"Every child is born with a message to deliver to the human race......a few words may be a work of art, maybe something he/she'll say dat completes the explanation .............of why we are here".
Find your purpose of life & adjust your wheels for the magnificent start of a whole new life. What youu end up doing, where you ultimately reach are trivial things.Dont focus on the end result, focus on the "JOURNEY".Make sure that you are really goin to enjoy, look forward to, be enthusiastic for,be excited for the journey.
And if the goal is achieved take it as a bonus.If not , so what ? Along the way you had fun .Along the way you had a life. Problems & challenges make life adventerous. For when we just not exist & begin to live the adventure begins.So decide that you will live for the journey ,not the destination just like a twenty year old.Decide that you will become one of those delightful people who on their death beds can honestly say "i made the most of my life & i have no regrets".
Do we really know what we want?Do we really know who we are? The answer is no.We grope in the dark wanting to reach out to something, someone,somewhere sometimes not even knowing why let alone how.Today life is beset with multivarious challenges, frustation & problems both at personal & professional fronts.Drugs,alcohol,infidelity appear as possible escape routes which would definitely lead us nowhere.
If we really want to be prepared , then we should just have a peek-a-boo through our innerselves .Accept things and if they are not acceptable have the optimism & the determination to change them.
Discover the importance of yourself as well as others. Feel the power of love & expand your life through meaningful relationships.
"Every child is born with a message to deliver to the human race......a few words may be a work of art, maybe something he/she'll say dat completes the explanation .............of why we are here".
Find your purpose of life & adjust your wheels for the magnificent start of a whole new life. What youu end up doing, where you ultimately reach are trivial things.Dont focus on the end result, focus on the "JOURNEY".Make sure that you are really goin to enjoy, look forward to, be enthusiastic for,be excited for the journey.
And if the goal is achieved take it as a bonus.If not , so what ? Along the way you had fun .Along the way you had a life. Problems & challenges make life adventerous. For when we just not exist & begin to live the adventure begins.So decide that you will live for the journey ,not the destination just like a twenty year old.Decide that you will become one of those delightful people who on their death beds can honestly say "i made the most of my life & i have no regrets".
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