Thursday, June 5, 2008

Crush vs love

"Opposites attract" well this a well proven fact of physics.It is said science is a way of life and this maxim gains its importance when we ourselves become catalyst for the reaction of opposite attraction.But there's another countersatement to back it"opposites attract but likes endure"...
So finally after enough beatin around the bush let me come to the topic.
Crushes are merely teenage blues or may be younger than that(keeping in mind the latest trends) .To be more rational, lets not consider age as the barrier.
A crush is a "strong liking for an individual".I guess every individual sometime in his/her own life experiences this feeling.For its purely a natural process....you were never taught anything about it,You never plan it,You neither wanted it but it just happens.
For some it may be for a moment like a bubble which bursts out,For some it may be a long phase which withers & dies.
Crushes are merely infatuations, nurtered by laws of attraction.It transcends logic & reason.
One can never comprehend why suddenly you are attracted to someone.It may begin because of a beautiful face,a sweet voice, a handsome body,a charming personality,a sparkling smile, a kind jesture or nothing at all.
It may be standing at the window as he reluctantly drives away, it maybe waiting for her call,
it may mean lazy dreams of future with him/her ,it may be the restlessness to meet,it may be the urge to dress up to impress,it may be blushing away to glory when he complements,it may be the way she looked at you through the corner of her eye,it may be an act of bravery..................it may be anything but love.
And this is perhaps the reason why crushes crash & do not last.
For true love is an understanding which compels u to be together with someone to make up for the mutual deficiencies (as we all are somewhere imperfect....).it is about trust,its about knowing each other for what they are and not expecting to change like two halves of whole ,complementing each other.Its a process which can be understood only by experiencing it..............(some experience it b4 marraige n sum aftr)

9 comments:

Rahul Adwani said...

Good Work

-Adwani

devilish angel said...
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devilish angel said...

Well written. Your blog is diverse and a bit deranged ...I partly agree

Anonymous said...

god knows how a gal can have so much opinions bout crush (or love) if u havent experienced it(as far as i know)a crush is the thing which makes ugly things beautiful and its side effect can make beautiful things ugly.unlike the hindi movies,the biggest villain in a love story are cicumstances.so i must say love is not for persons of circumstances.if u can really control or adapt acc 2 circumstances,there cant be a more beautiful thing than love.
this is my opinion and i dont compel nebdy 2 like it.

Anonymous said...

crush v/s love....

ven d crush is ovr,u soon 4get d person n go abt ya normal lyf..but love,its gotta plethora f emotions attached 2 it....feeling f being in love makes u a better human but crush cant do so evr..both crush n love r due to sm instantaneous attraction, but in love u tend 2 get 2 kno so much dats gud in d other person..but in crush its not so..

has "mere crush" evr let ne1 cry ??
love, oh my-my !! its mutual , complementary n complimentary at times as well..

-prasanna

Anonymous said...

grt article and comments by kushal and prassana .. i got new ideas from it...

Amitabh Mishra said...

Does this word - "LOVE" really exist? I have my doubts.

Nandini Gopal said...

i just wish we could know the difference clearly right at the start.. saves every1 a lot of time and effort, no ??

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