Thursday, June 5, 2008

Confessions of a Twenty Someone

Twenty that milestone in your life when you are overwhlemed by the fact "yes ,i am an adult " in the real sense.Just shreded the experimental teenage years and now ready to take the plunge.You feel strong, invincible,ready to be commited in relationship,ready to be financially independent,ready to be your own. But the question here to be answered is that "Is it not far too ambitious attempt by the "twenty someone" to dream dreams of bein rich,independent & happy?"
Do we really know what we want?Do we really know who we are? The answer is no.We grope in the dark wanting to reach out to something, someone,somewhere sometimes not even knowing why let alone how.Today life is beset with multivarious challenges, frustation & problems both at personal & professional fronts.Drugs,alcohol,infidelity appear as possible escape routes which would definitely lead us nowhere.
If we really want to be prepared , then we should just have a peek-a-boo through our innerselves .Accept things and if they are not acceptable have the optimism & the determination to change them.
Discover the importance of yourself as well as others. Feel the power of love & expand your life through meaningful relationships.
"Every child is born with a message to deliver to the human race......a few words may be a work of art, maybe something he/she'll say dat completes the explanation .............of why we are here".
Find your purpose of life & adjust your wheels for the magnificent start of a whole new life. What youu end up doing, where you ultimately reach are trivial things.Dont focus on the end result, focus on the "JOURNEY".Make sure that you are really goin to enjoy, look forward to, be enthusiastic for,be excited for the journey.
And if the goal is achieved take it as a bonus.If not , so what ? Along the way you had fun .Along the way you had a life. Problems & challenges make life adventerous. For when we just not exist & begin to live the adventure begins.So decide that you will live for the journey ,not the destination just like a twenty year old.Decide that you will become one of those delightful people who on their death beds can honestly say "i made the most of my life & i have no regrets".

3 comments:

phqghumea said...

its truely an ohnest,clear vision of a 20+ girl,i appreciate the maturity that she has in her expression .i cud very well see the growth in you through ur writting so congratulation on that part .......and continue expressing this way you can go a long way ........so all the best .

devilish angel said...

I am the biggest fan of your articles!
Keep up the spirit!

Unknown said...

very inspiring di.....keep it up...

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